Happy Sunday, Blogland...yet again! :)
Either way, I'm okay with the small detour my blog content is taking on weekends. Especially after all the positive comments and messages about last week's post, which was similar...seems you all enjoy it! :)
While at the same time, finding things like this out may also help confirm thoughts, feelings and decisions that were very difficult for you to make at a certain time in life, though you know were the right ones for you. All despite catching glimmers of disrespect and negativity prior in someone, which put you off, wore and even broke you down over time. Decisions further confirmed with more knowledge.
That said, it seems that only once you gain the ability to step outside of yourself and situations can you obtain a clearer view. More so when things are told or pointed out to you over time that others found off putting and disrespectful themselves, be it simple social graces and etiquette or beyond. Then, once time has passed, and you are more removed, you can see how the way others perceived things and felt in given situations align with your own.
Now, even though in the moments when you are made aware of certain comments or instances, it can be hurtful to hear or realize, they are also so healing and reassuring! Life truly has its own way of unfolding, and sometimes it is best not to question it. As well as remember to trust yourself, your instincts, feelings and heart a little too.
In the end, it all comes down to, in the words of a hit song by Aretha Franklin, R-E-S-P-E-C-T.
Respect as a person, with your thoughts, your action and especially your comments! Remember that words can hurt the most. Be even more aware when the comments, actions and looks you make are being misunderstood or misread by so many...perhaps it is telling you something.
Ultimately, I think it all comes down to how you think and view things in life, and negativity can really alter one's perspective! Always respect yourself enough to see this within yourself and make the change. You always have a choice, but it has to be your choice in the end.
In the words of Ellen DeGeneres, whom I love, "Be kind to one another!"
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Great post!! It seems now a days people really are lacking respect for eachother and themselves!! I find it mind boggling how some people can disrespect complete strangers. I could never do something like that!! Take care :)
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Thank you, Kat! I agree completely with what you said...I could never either! :)
DeleteI completely agree! :)
DeleteI pretty much agree with you on everything you said here. You know there is a saying - a word is a sparrow, when it flies out, you can't catch it:(
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I LOVE that saying!!! Thank you for sharing it, I agree, so, so true! :)
DeleteWhat an awesome post Liesl!~ You are so wise and tis is all so true. You are a very confident, kind, and obviously caring young lady! I could not agree with you more on every word you said! you ROCK!
ReplyDelete"it seems that only once you gain the ability to step outside of yourself and situations can you obtain a clearer view." I tend to have a quick reaction rather then a logical one, I usually do better the next day or lets face it next year.. sometimes.
ReplyDeleteYou my dear are wonderful, thank you for opening your soul up, it is so kind and good.
Hey There! Nice Sunday post :) I like the personal aspect of your blog now too, Liesl...and I like the fashion tips too :) I agree with your respect post - we do always have a choice..amen :)
ReplyDeleteHow sweet, Sheila, that means a lot...thank you!!! :)
DeleteThis is a great post! I'm loving your Sunday hellos :-) Life has been doing some "unfolding" for me lately... it is *always* good to be reminded of the awesome things that will come my way that I never would have "planned" for.
ReplyDeleteI could not agree more, Sara! You always have such an uplifting and positive blog...plus, I noticed that about you when I discovered you via your touching and beautiful wedding video! :)
DeleteSuch good thoughts! Love it. Your blog is FABULOUS! So glad I found you!
ReplyDeleteSo glad you found me too and enjoy the blog...plus, it lead me to you and your lovely blog! Yay! :)
DeleteI love this! I love Ellen, too!
ReplyDeletelove it. Fabulous post, love. I hope you had an amazing weekend. If you get a sec, I'd love to hear your thoughts on my latest outfit post. xo
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Thanks for sharing this yesterday... I've been having some confrontational issues with someone for the disrespect and lying that has been going on with this person. Maybe they need to look within, but I can't overlook myself either. ;) xoxo A-
ReplyDeleteGreat encouraging post. I always say people are going to say what they say but only God can judge me! Kiah
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